so i ran into an old friend today, who knows the guy in the last entry... every time i see her she has something negative to say about him, and she's totally not a negative person. so what she told me definitely has me thinking, maybe this guy is just not dating material AT ALL. meaning, i guess i don't care so much anymore about whether we can communicate, or be completely open, or all of those other dumb things girls care about so much. that actually are important when applied to the right person, but he's just not it for me. my eyes are fully opening for the first time.